Cruella Devil

This is the month of February. While we like to enhance our personal relationships, sometimes we get it right or we get lost. We, women are beautiful and have our own ability to attract opposite sex. But these outer beauties shatter when we reveal our inner sides and become ‘Cruella Devil’. One real incident shook my life profoundly when one of my friend’s two young children were slaughtered in their father’s house by their step-mother. ‘Cruella Devil’ butchered them with a knife when they were sleeping in the weekend morning while their dad went out of the house. Does this happen often? Of course, it happens to all the children of special circumstances, but we (especially fathers whose hearts are hard like rocks) don’t see the bleeding from the hearts of these children!!!

I am not against second or third marriage or true love. In life these avenues are open for clean and pure beginning. And the feeling of lust is alluring. It is great to feel extra special. But where is the limit? Every man can have a child, but every man cannot bear a child and become ‘the father’ without strong commitments and series of sacrifices -- which eloquently is expressed as "Anyone can be a father, but it takes a man to be a dad"!!! When I look around and see that the man is acting like an addict and the woman is presenting herself as a drug, I feel sorry for both parties. Love could be a combination of silly feelings, but for sure it is not a drug. After staying under the same roof, maximum two and a half years later the lust will go away, what will happen then? These addicts will run for new doses, new tastes of women. In the mean time, what will happen with these kids? The women who do not have morality and sell themselves as drugs -- these needy, lonely, desperate, selfish human creatures will they qualify to be the mother for the children of these self-centered men? Kids are special and innocent, no kids deserve these treatments!!!

As a woman and a future mother, we all have the right to choose our life partners. We know ourselves the best and if we are not ‘Cruella Devils’ by ourselves, then we should choose our life-partners wisely to save our babies. Otherwise, we will not able to avoid inevitable miseries of our lives and our beloveds.